When you make him work for his reward.
WHY DO I CHOOSE THIS PHOTOGRAPH TO REBLOG ?
There can be many reasons why a particular photograph of BDSM activity appeals to ME. 99.9% of the time it is the display of submission that speaks to ME. It may be the view of the boy’s ass accepting entry of the DOMINANTs COCK or the look of acceptance in the sub’s eyes during an oral servicing, it might be the physical submission I see when a sub is tied up, ass exposed and being disciplined. I see the submissive offer its power to the SIR or MASTER and for HIM to do with that submission as HE chooses.
What speaks to ME, is what is called a POWER EXCHANGE, that is the consensual act of a voluntary offering from one, and the freedom to thus take what is HIS in the other. It is the consensual portion of this exchange which makes it okay to be sadistic. to cause pain, to torture a sub, and use it exclusively for ITS own pleasure and needs.
For some it may seem bizarre that one person would want to give its power to another, but for those in the BDSM community, we understand how normal it feels. Whether one comes from the sub side or the DOM side, the giving up or the taking of power seems so natural and rewarding.
We are all wired internally, learn to embrace who you are. For ME, I am totally a DOMINANT in all areas of MY life, and I seek a submissive who wishes to please ME, whether it is by sexually pleasing MY selfish needs, or accepting that they will be the object of MY BDSM desires. Even if not what they fantasize, they accept and endure, knowing they consensually exist to serve.
if you are a DOMINANT, know that you have responsibilities and learn how to handle power, the sub needs to trust you.
If you are a submissive, do not be afraid to find the right MASTER to trust in order to fulfill your need to please, and then ….
EXIST TO SERVE & SERVE TO EXIST & OBEY your MASTER,